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Look,
I'm not trying to be your boyfriend,
That's not who I am,
Then who are you?
I'm the guy you go home with,
You do know I have a boyfriend?
Oh, I know,
- But this had nothing to do with him, - Of course it does,
If your boyfriend had a say in all the decisions you made,
- you wouldn't be here right now, - Of course I would,
So your boyfriend knows that you're here?
Yeah,
With me?
He knows that I'm out having dinner with a friend,
But I'm not your friend,
Well, then who are you?
I'm the guy you go home with,
Hi, my name is Mahlatsi
and I've been living in Johannesburg for over…
twenty years now,
And this guy over here is my fiancé,
And my friends call me Bheka,
Mmm, and we're really excited that we finally get to have our Dream Day,
Yeah,
Well, I…
I think I'm not nervous anymore,
I just… I want this to happen now,
It will, don't worry, Third time lucky,
Okay, Bheka,
Could you say that line directly into camera?
Um, just the last bit,
Directly into… into…
Yeah, um, third time lucky,
Okay,
Third time lucky,
Okay, could we do it again?
Uh, but maybe this time a little bit less performance,
Um, just say your line, Um, don't act it,
I'm not acting,
Um, could you make it a little bit more natural?
Okay,
Third time lucky,
Brilliant!
- Thanks a lot, - I'm glad you're happy,
I mean, it looks good here,
And now I need to go back to my job,
But we still have that one-on-one interview to do,
Which is fine, You… you can do me another day,
But the office kind of scheduled you guys for today,
Um, you gave us up until 12,
Well, if I stayed here all day,
I wouldn't make my nine o'clock meeting,
But you agreed,
But I didn't,
Yes, you did, Bheka,
Remember last week when I was confirming the schedule?
You agreed until 12,
Truth has not been detected in your statement,
I'm not lying,
I never accused you of that,
Yes, you did, Just admit it,
Look, I admit that I forgot about it,
I don't remember,
Can we just please, um…
- Can we not do this here? - We're not doing anything here,
So what are we gonna do?
Well, you're gonna do your one-on-one, Uh…
I'm gonna go to my meeting and…
They will reschedule,
Love you,
Look, um, if you wanna do your interview on another day,
- we could always reschedule, - No, I'm fine,
We can do it,
Hey,
Hey, you,
- You sleep well? - Mmm,
Oh, is that for me?
No, this is mine,
Look… I need to get to work,
What time is it?
Nearly nine,
Okay, um, I just need to freshen up,
Sure,
I had an amazing time,
So did I,
So say, for instance, I no longer had a boyfriend,
I don't date,
You're being serious?
If you wanna hook up again, you can give me a call, okay?
Don't count on it,
All the way,
From, from, from our villages,
Yes, to dig up, to dig up, to dig and dig and dig and dig,
To dig up the riches, riches… riches from our motherland,
For the benefit…
Benefit, benefit, before they can scavenge us,
He drilled, he drilled, he drilled,
Are you taking pictures of the women?
Or the performance?
I'm getting audience reactions,
Thanks, Taki, I'll do your transfer tonight,
Unless you've got a problem with cash in hand?
I've got nothing against cash in hand,
Cash in hand is great, If you're a stripper…
or you sell weed,
Ah…
In other news, have you seen… where that lady went?
What lady?
The nice one,
They're all nice,
The one I was taking pictures of just now,
Oh yes, the one you were taking pictures of…
instead of doing…
your job,
That's the one, she disappeared, Have you seen where she went?
Taki?
I was way too busy… looking after my club,
So you're gonna have to forgive me if I couldn't do your babysitting,
As usual…
it's been a pleasure,
All right,
- Take it easy, - All right,
Hello?
Hey, love,
No, no, no, they've pushed my meeting up by two hours,
Yeah, maybe around six, half six, uh…
Give or take,
Mmm-hmm,
Right, I'll see you then,
I love you too,
Bye,
Hey, yo, Taks?
Jesus Christ…
Whoa! She's gorgeous, Who's that?
- I wish I knew, - Why you stalking, my guy?
I'm not stalking her,
I… I saw her at the poetry thing at the club,
Wait a minute, so you're telling me that
this person, she…
She wasn't with anyone?
Nope,
She came alone,
Alright,
My brother,
Are you sure this person, um…
wasn't a prostitute?
A prostitute at a poetry session?
Yoh! Who says prostitutes don't go to poetry sessions?
Listen, if you'd seen half of the things that they had seen,
I'm telling you, you'd need some poetry in your life as well,
Can I help you, Donald?
Yes, um, the magazine guy is waiting for us downstairs,
Okay, I'll be right down,
- Give me five minutes, - All right, cool,
Just don't take too long because apparently, he's waiting for us
and he's got a gig of us taking pictures of girls,
In bikinis,
- Really, Donald? - Hey, hey,
Don't you really, Donald,
I'm married, You, you don't know my pain,
This is a blessing and it's not even in disguise, it's…
It's in the bikini, so…
- You're stupid, - Hey yo!
Amandla, let's get going, let's get going,
Linda, you… said something about bikinis?
- Yeah, - She's gonna be launching her debut album,
So we wanted a beach swimwear vibes,
- You know? - So you want sand?
Not really,
I was thinking more big balloons, cocktails, umbrellas,
Something of that sort,
I mean, she's gonna be posing with her friends or her--
rather the ones we get for her,
As you see here, gentlemen, she has a very feisty feel to her,
Hmm, Hey, hey, Hold on, Um…
She has a very sexy feel to her,
And the things I'd do,
Donald, why don't you do those things to your wife?
Me? Bro, really?
Gosh, he's quite right, bro, This girl is a unicorn,
A unicorn, really?
Those rare, mystical creatures of…
That's the girl from the club,
Ah, the… the prostitute?
She's not a prostitute, I promise you, she's not a prostitute,
- Okay, I'll be back in a minute, - Wait, Where are you going?
We're in the middle of a meeting, Where you going?
Bro, you're looking at a girl and calling her a unicorn,
This does not qualify as a meeting, it qualifies as foreplay
to what you're gonna do to yourself
as soon as the universe allows you alone time,
Yeah, you're an asshole,
Hi,
Do I know you?
Yeah, you're the lady from the club,
And you are?
I'm the guy who takes the photos,
Um, are you stalking me, guy who takes the photos?
No, no, um, I was…
in a meeting,
And I saw you, so I decided to come over and ask if you
might wanna see the photos that I took of you,
Well, I took photos of the…
the event but you happened to be in them, you know?
- Mmm, - Yeah,
Ah, do you do this with all the guests?
Yes, this is uh, standard procedure,
Yeah,
I'm lying,
So, um, how do I get the photos?
Well, you could give me your number, I'll send them to you,
So you're asking me for my number?
I mean, I could, could use your, your…
- email if… - No, no, no,
You're not answering my question, I'm saying do you want to have my number?
- Yes, - Where's your phone?
I saved it as Tumi,
That's your name?
No, my name is George,
Sorry, I'm a bit slow today,
I can see that,
Don't worry about it, I'm…
taking pills and injections and stuff, you know?
Doctor says it should clear up in a few days or so,
Let's hope so,
Camera guy?
Um, I didn't get your name,
Taki,
Taki with a T?
No, with a Q,
Touche,
Knock-knock,
I've got a delivery for you,
Wow, Mrs, Nkosi,
No, No, no, no,
I haven't decided if I'm taking your surname yet,
So please, don't flirt with me like that,
A delivery for a…
possibly soon-to-be Mrs, Nkosi,
I don't want it,
Well, you can't reject it now,
I just did,
- Not until you read the note, - I don't want to read the note,
Oh, that's perfectly fine because part of my job description
includes reading the note,
- I don't want to hear it, - Well, I think she does want to hear it,
Dear…
future wife,
These flowers are but a small symbol of my love for you,
And I'm the luckiest fool to have found you,
Permission to kiss you,
Go up now, I'm coming,
Okay, okay,
- My love? - Hmm?
Uh…
I was quite embarrassed by what you did this morning,
What did I do?
Telling the TV crew you won't do the interview when you agreed to do it,
I'm sorry,
Um, I had forgotten,
So now you remember?
Yes, I do,
Look, I just double booked and for that, I apologize,
Well, I think you need to apologize to them,
- No, - Why not?
Because they are filmmakers, okay?
That's not even a real job,
You know, huh-uh,
Sometimes I can't tell the difference whether you're being serious or joking,
I don't know,
Well, this is my serious face,
I will not apologize to a group of people who don't have real jobs,
All they do is sit around and tell stories all day,
You know who else does that? People in taverns,
You're being an idiot,
No, they're being idiots,
Spending all of their free time drinking too much and having unprotected sex,
Who does that?
You know, you…
You've really mastered the art of being hurtful,
I'm just being honest,
In a very hurtful way…
Bheka,
Hello?
Um… Hi,
Is this the guy who takes photos?
Why would you call me that? I told you my real name,
You said it was your middle name,
I was just being charming,
Are you good, Taki?
I am,
Why are you calling me?
Well, it's about the photos and um…
You're calling me about the photos?
I am,
That's disappointing,
I thought you were calling to do dinner or something,
- Well, I'd love to do dinner or something, - Then ask me to do dinner or something,
You want me to ask you?
I wouldn't have told you to ask me if I didn't want you to ask me, Taki,
I'm a lady, so I would like to be treated as one,
Okay,
Would you like to do dinner or something, Tumi?
Hmm… Let me think about that,
Excuse me, I'm just checking my diary quickly,
Wow,
Hmm…
I may be able to fit you in,
When would you like to do it?
As soon as humanly possible,
How about now?
It's short notice now, Taki,
Okay, Then tomorrow,
Let's do dinner tomorrow,
Then I will dinner with you tomorrow, Taki,
I am glad to hear that, Tumi,
Good night, Tumi,
It's still evening, Taki, so we say good evening,
Well then, good evening to you, too,
I'm not a monster,
I didn't say you were a monster,
Yeah, sometimes I just feel like you think it,
Do you think it?
Sometimes,
You used to be tougher than this, remember?
Yes,
What happened?
I met you,
So in your life's movie, I'm the bad guy,
No one said you're a bad guy,
You're just saying that,
Because I want to believe it,
But you don't,
Not when you're being hurtful,
Am I being hurtful now?
No,
And tomorrow?
Tomorrow?
If I don't want to hurt you tomorrow, what…
would I do?
Well, let's see,
You would help me find the cake,
That's what we're doing tomorrow,
Okay, We can do that,
And also, I'd like you to help me more with the wedding arrangements,
You said you wanted to take the lead, I was just letting you lead,
Yeah, But I want your input,
Remember, this is a partnership, Bheka,
I know,
And you're my partner,
Okay, I'll be there now,
Uh, I'll see you soon,
Okay,
Hey, Uh, just a quick meeting in and out,
I should be back in an hour,
- I don't believe you, - An hour and a half latest,
Remember, you still have to do your one-on-one interview?
Yes, and I will, In an hour and a half,
You promise?
I guarantee it,
Okay, Trevor, Uh, we'll shoot it in an hour and a half,
Yes, Sir,
It's Tresor, not Trevor, babe,
Tresor?
Yes,
Really?
Why did you keep letting me call you Trevor?
It's not a big deal,
No, it is a big deal,
What language is that anyway?
It's French, Sir,
Well, what does it mean?
It means treasure,
Why do you have a French name?
Because I'm half French,
You're French?
See, my father's from South Africa,
So I grew up here but my mother's from the DRC,
That would make you half DRC, not half French,
I mean, being colonized by someone doesn't actually make you them,
Imagine if I went around saying that I am half Afrikaans
and half British just because they colonized us,
- Doesn't make sense now, does it? - Babe?
I am teleporting a message to you
regarding the conversation we had earlier on,
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend you,
No offence taken,
You see, love, He's not offended,
Oh, Well, if you keep speaking like this, the offended will call you woke,
Okay,
An hour and a half, Tresor,
Think about what I just said, right? And how many people in France
do you think go around claiming the DRC as their nationality?
And if they don't do it, then we shouldn't either, right?
African and proud,
The thing is, it was the Belgian that colonized us,
But um, I hear your point,
Yeah, Belgium, France, Same difference,
They all colonize us, But we're still African and proud,
- Say it with me, African and proud, - African and proud,
And you'll still be African and proud in an hour and a half,
Yeah,
So you don't date?
- I don't, - What do you do?
- I freelance, - Between women?
Well, it's not between livestock,
Who hurt you?
Why do you think someone hurt me?
Because you've got an ice box where your heart used to be,
- We're quoting Omarion now? - Who hurt you?
We'll quote Boom Shaka if we have to,
Who hurt you?
- You wouldn't know her, - She cheated on you,
Yep,
She hooked up with another guy?
Guys,
I did a count not so long ago and…
the number I reached was around…
half of Joburg,
What's her name?
Well, her nickname is Marie,
Marie is a name, It's not a nickname,
Not if it's short for Marie Antoinette,
Marie Antoinette?
Yeah,
Yeah, she never liked seeing a good man go hungry,
So she let them eat cake,
Marie Antoinette,
So that has hurt your male ego,
That's like saying she broke my male heart,
Well?
She did,
So how long have you been single for?
About three and a half years,
It's just that…
being in a relationship makes me feel trapped,
You know, I wanna get out, But when I do that, I hurt someone,
So I figure if I don't date…
I won't hurt anyone,
I'm not designed to hurt people,
No one is designed to hurt people,
Then why do we do it so much?
I guess if hurt is all you know, then hurt is all you'll give,
You know that saying, hurt people, hurt people?
Yeah, I've heard that once,
I'm trying to help you here,
Sorry,
Help me then,
I don't like to have too many rules in my life,
especially when it comes to relationships,
But I do have one rule,
And that's never to date anyone who hates themselves
or doesn't love themselves,
You can only give what you have,
And if hate is all you have inside, then hate is all you give outside,
Never trust the naked man who promises to give you a suit,
Because if he can't clothe himself, then how do you expect him to clothe you?
So you only trust people who are fully clothed?
The only people who can give love are those who have love inside,
True love,
Not this thing that people like to call love but
in reality, is just vanity in sheep's clothing,
Heart times,
Hard times, indeed,
Oh, no, not hard times,
Heart times,
You know, like the heart that beats,
You down to the ground until you don't recognize yourself
and build up walls like, "I don't date anymore,"
Ow!
You clap when you laugh,
I clap when I'm happy,
And why are you happy?
Because I'm attracted to you
and I enjoy spending time with people I'm attracted to,
So…
what are your plans?
I have but one plan,
- Is that yours? - Yeah,
Hey, love,
I'm good and you?
Really, I… I didn't hear it,
I was out at lunch,
What time will you be back?
Okay, well… wanna do a movie?
Okay, Dinner and a movie and then we'll make it a real date,
Okay, love,
Love you, too,
Bye,
That was your boyfriend?
Yeah,
You didn't say anything?
You didn't ask anything,
I didn't,
Does it bother you?
It can't,
You have heard of an open relationship, right?
Yeah, In the movies,
So what? You…
You can hook up with anyone you want to?
And he does too, I mean, we're not prostitutes,
We just don't like to have unrealistic expectations of ourselves,
Wow,
Okay, that's… that's nice,
- But give me a little more attitude, - Got it? Let's go,
Linda, my guy,
You know, if you ever… if you ever want to give up on the world,
Just… just come back to these moments,
- Beautiful, - What did you say?
I said beautiful,
And I think we're done,
Hey, huh? Tak… Taki?
Are you done? Dude, are they finished?
- Is that it? - Yeah, that's it,
Don't you have, like… an… another shot or so…?
Thank you so much, ladies,
Huh?
Thanks,
Thank you, You did well,
Baby,
Hmm?
I love you,
- Baby? - Hmm?
I said I love you,
- Babe, - Hmm?
I said I love you, Did you not hear me?
I did both times,
Okay, so…
what do you have to say about it?
I have to say thank you,
Thank you and?
- Babe, - Yeah,
Well, I have to say thank you
and I love you more than you know,
Really?
Are you sure?
Yeah,
I love you,
Bheka, I feel like you don't really love me,
Of course I do,
No, you don't because now you're running off to your little fiancé,
I have to finish the shoot,
You don't have to do anything,
You want to,
I've been telling you this so many times, You never listen to me,
Look, baby, I'm not fighting with you, okay?
You know I don't like to fight with you,
Are you angry at me now?
No,
Could never be angry at you,
Hmm,
So are you finally going to send me that data
that I've been asking for that you promised
so long ago,
But obviously, you always forget about me,
I'm… sorry, Look I, I had so much on my mind,
- Really? - Yeah,
Okay, So you'll send it today?
I'll send it before I get to the shoot,
Okay,
Look… he's cheated on me before,
So this wouldn't be the first time,
Boo-hoo,
You got cheated on,
What a historic moment,
Tell me about one woman who has never been cheated on,
Oh, where's my phone so I can tell the press,
- I'm glad that you find this as a joke, - I don't think it's a joke,
I think it's a trend, Everybody does it,
So Thabo also cheats on you?
No, I just like being drunk every day at 2 PM,
Geez, why didn't you tell me?
Because it's a trend,
Everybody does it,
Show me a man who doesn't cheat and I'll show you a historic moment,
So what, are we just supposed to accept it?
No, we're supposed to adapt,
Adapt? What do you mean, adapt?
I mean, we adapt,
How?
By adapting,
Okay, Let me put it like this,
When your man leaves to do dodgy business
you must also go do your dodgy business,
Are you…?
Please don't ask me questions you don't have the guts to--
No, I do,
You are so innocent, I feel like I'm talking too much,
You're crazy,
I'm not crazy, The world we live in is crazy,
Me? I'm adapting,
So how long have you been…
Well…?
Ever since he started doing it,
You're lying,
I wasn't doing anything,
Until I found out that he is busy hooking up with everyone,
Like who?
Like secretaries,
Like PA's,
Anyone wearing a skirt,
Men don't have standards,
What separates a man from a woman is the clothes they're wearing,
But Sindi why don't you just leave him?
Leave him for what?
For another man who's going to cheat as well,
Girl, we live in a city of gold, Not a city of golden men,
No, well, I… I don't believe that all men are the same,
Okay, You're living in Lalaland,
Where they open doors for you,
give you back massages without any ulterior motives, Here?
Trusting a man is like trusting that a guy who drives a BMW won't speed,
You're such a pessimist,
- I'm a realist, - No, you're a pessimist,
Because the only time your glasses are full is when there's Pinot in it,
Open your eyes, friend,
Look around you,
We live in a city where broken people come in and their droves
because this is the only place where they can truly feel at home,
Come on,
Ah, you're back,
Yeah, you're still here,
What are you doing?
Oh…
I was supposed to have been gone by now, right?
No, Come on,
- They're usually gone by now, aren't they? - I mean, on average, yes,
No worries, Um, I will just finish up here and get out of your way,
I'm not… kicking you out,
So…
you want me to stay and eat with you?
Yes, I do,
Hey! Hey,
You've been so slow,
So much so, that being a doctor is not about healing
but about prescribing the right…
If life was reduced to a single moment…
I choose to remain in this one,
Hello?
Hey, love,
You have puppy dog eyes,
Puppy dog?
Labrador,
The happiest dog in the world,
Yet sometimes… it looks so sad,
Well, I'm not sad,
You're lying to me,
I don't lie,
Liar,
Time flies when you're…
When you're having fun,
Yeah, It does,
What's worse than leaving?
Being left behind,
Hello?
You know, I've been in Joburg for over three years now and honestly,
if it wasn't for this last year and this record label thing,
- I swear I would have left, - So you don't like Joburg?
I mean, it's not that I don't like it, It's just…
It's… It's hectic, you know?
It's not a place that you wanna be in if you're broke,
Yeah, I mean…
I hated this place,
Why?
Because I was broke the first two years I was here,
Yoh, Joburg is more intense than New York, hey?
Oh, you've been?
I mean, no,
But I'm sure it is,
Yeah,
- I have a theory about Joburg, - Hmm?
Ask me what it is,
What's your theory about Joburg?
Why, that's a very good question, Ma'am, Did you come up with that all by yourself?
You think you're clever, hey?
I think,
Therefore I am,
Ugh, what's your theory?
Okay, Think of every megacity in the world,
They're all connected to a body of water in one way or another,
Joburg is the only mega city in the world
that is not connected to a body of water,
Ask me why not,
Why not?
Because when we came here we weren't looking for life,
We were looking for gold,
- So, when will it be done? - Oh, they said in a day or two,
Okay,
I was hoping you'd drop me off at the shoot tomorrow,
I need to look for a wedding dress,
You already have a wedding dress, You have two,
But those were for the weddings that did not happen,
Now I need a dress for a wedding that is going to happen,
Bheka, please drop me off,
Why don't you order a ride?
Because my soon-to-be husband has a car,
And he also has a job that he needs to get to in the morning,
So you're saying no?
I am saying why don't you order a ride in the morning
and I will pick you up at the end of the day,
I really love both the dresses
but I haven't decided on which one I'm gonna go for,
So I will sleep on it,
- Do you want me to say anything else? - No, I think… I think we're good,
I think we're good,
Okay, cool,
Wait,
What if we did a little sign-out where you say this is the end of the day?
You're waiting for Bheka and when he comes through,
you jump into the car and you guys drive off?
- Okay, fine, - Awesome,
Camera's rolling,
Sound,
And… action!
So we've just finished off the day and I've selected two dresses,
which I still need to sleep on before I decide which one I'm gonna go for,
But at least we have our finalists and…
right now, I'm just waiting for Bheka to come and fetch me so we can go home,
Just keep walking until where the car gets here,
Okay,
We'll play with transitions and jump cuts just to make the wait a little shorter,
- But just keep waiting, - Okay,
Bheka, you said you'd be here 30 minutes ago,
Call me back,
Hey,
He's um, probably in a meeting,
Yeah, No, it's… it's fine,
I'll just… I'll just call the cab,
No, don't worry about that, I'll drop you off,
No, really, it's fine, I'll call a ride, It's cool,
That would be fine if I didn't have a car,
Alright,
Here we go,
- Thanks for dropping me off, - No, not a problem at all,
I don't know what I would have done without you,
You would have called a ride,
Yeah,
- Alright, good night, yeah, - Good night,
I was thinking, babe,
What were you thinking?
That…
You know, we could re-look this baby issue,
Is this the talk you wanted to have?
Yeah,
I thought this was gonna be a good talk,
Wait, how is talking about a baby not good?
When I'm not ready to have one?
Don't you remember, you were the one that said that,
you know, we'd revisit this issue,
No, you were the one who said you wanted to revisit this issue,
You're being selfish,
So what's the alternative?
Me being selfless and having a baby I don't want to have
so that you and your family can go around saying, "She's such a bad mother,"
- It's not gonna happen, - Yes, it will,
Baby, look,
People have children they don't want all the time,
And that's why there's so many messed up individuals in this world,
Do you honestly think if people chose to have babies when they're good and ready
that it'll at least solve half of the world's problems?
But you're ready, we both--
Are you honestly telling me that you're ready
for a child to mimic who you are right now? Because I'm not,
So you're waiting to be perfect?
No,
I am waiting to be ready,
Babe, I've been calling out to you,
You didn't answer,
You are angry at me,
It's understandable,
I made a commitment to come and pick you up and I didn't,
Look…
I broke a promise and for that I'm…
I'm sorry, I apologize,
Do you forgive me?
My love, I'm talking to you,
Sit down,
Can I get something to eat first, I'm famished,
I'm sure she gave you more than enough to eat,
So I'm going to need you…
to sit down,
Oh,
So it's about that?
Sit down,
Do you love me?
How can you even ask me that?
Yeah, cause I mean you walk in here with lousy flowers
to compensate for the fact that you were inside another woman,
Do you love me?
Proof,
My proof is your lies,
Your lies, Bheka,
And your stupid meetings that run into the night,
It's the nature of my job,
As what?
Hmm?
As a qualified architect?
Or a qualified whore?
The Carlton Centre is the second tallest building in town,
Do us a favor,
Go take a leap of faith,
Why would you do something like this to me?
Because you have done nothing,
Why?
You're not listening to me,
You…
have…
done…
nothing,
When I met you, you were this beautiful, radiant girl,
Your body looked like it was engineered by an Eastern Cape car manufacturer,
Your hair, your nails, your skin,
You were polished like a rare diamond,
Then you got too comfortable,
Put a ring on your finger,
And you took that as permission to let yourself go,
Oh, please,
Says the man who used to run track,
But the closest you've gotten to a six-pack in the last decade…
is in a bottle store,
This is my issue,
You just don't get it,
- It's like I'm talking to a two-year-old, - Oh, well then enlighten me, my love,
Because I… I can't seem to understand,
I'm struggling with your double standards as your hypocrisy washes over me,
It is not hypocrisy,
These are the rules of the game,
The rules? What rules?
When I don't take care of myself
I must get thrown out and when you don't take care of yourself it's all good,
Because I'm a man!
You--
You didn't just say that,
Because you are the man,
Because you are the man, Bheka,
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be an ass here but…
That ship has long sailed,
You know what?
What I'm trying to say…
is that I worked hard,
Okay? I come from poverty and I worked hard,
Okay? I went to university,
I got a good job,
I made money,
I started my own company,
Okay? I made even more money,
So as a man, I did my part,
I provided,
And you, what do you do?
Stuff yourself with hamburgers,
- It's a chicken burger, - It's still a burger,
I didn't say you must throw it away,
Oh, fuck you and your lame attempts at being a considerate asshole,
Fuck you!
Hey,
You've changed?
Yeah, Um…
I need to get to work, Emergency shoot,
It's 10 p,m,
Are you shooting paramedics or something?
No, I'm…
There's an artist in town who's performing,
And his photographer bailed on him so…
- Yeah, I've gotta step in, - Is it?
Yeah,
And what's the artist's name?
His name?
Mmm,
Nark… something?
- I don't know, something like that, - Nark something?
Yeah,
I've never heard of him,
- Must be an up-and-coming artist, right? - He must be, yeah,
Probably is,
Okay, just give me a few minutes,
Okay,
Sorry,
I'm gonna go clear my head a little bit,
Because things were said last night…
that I need to marinate on,
I will be back later,
I don't think she'll ever change,
I know, baby,
But… I could change for you,
No,
You don't have to change,
I don't want you to change a single thing,
- Yeah, - Yeah,
'Cause I'm perfect?
I won't say this has come as a complete surprise,
But women in your position have been known to do things
even more dramatic than this to keep a man,
Granted, it's a bit… desperate,
Unoriginal in my opinion but…
well played,
So…
we'll get married,
we'll have this child and…
we'll make lemonade,
Okay, So I'm gonna be in edit most of today,
I'll give you a call when I'm almost done,
- Okay, - Okay,
I think congratulations are in order,
You…
are expecting a baby,
Um… that's, that's not possible,
That's not possible,
I've been taking these pills for like…
I don't even know how many years and I've never skipped a day…
and they've never given me a problem before,
You do understand that close to 10% of women who are on the pill
fall pregnant every year, right?
I know, I'm just saying like, I've taken it every single day,
And…
it's like…
why wouldn't they work?
What's important is that we look at our options now,
I can schedule another appointment for later in the week,
Hi,
- Hey, - Hey,
What's wrong?
You said you wanted to speak to me about something,
What I wanted to speak to you about can wait,
First, tell me what's wrong,
I am,
Taki, come here,
Talk to me,
I ignored your calls,
What do you mean?
When you called…
earlier on…
just now… this morning,
I didn't miss the calls, I ignored them,
Why would you do that?
Because there's something…
seriously damaged about this guy,
The moment I feel remotely…
- in lo-- - Vulnerable?
In… Vulnerable, I…
Are you falling in love with me?
Please don't look at me when you ask me that,
Does that make you feel vulnerable?
A bit,
And does that make you wanna run?
Not from you,
So what do you wanna do?
I wanna stop jeopardizing my own happiness,
It's exhausting,
So why do you do it?
Fear,
Fear of another Marie Antoinette situation?
Yeah,
That was really painful for me,
I don't like pain because…
pain hurts,
So you still need to get over it?
I'm over her…
and that chapter,
I… I've closed that entire book now,
I'm not concerned that you're not over her,
It's recovering from the emotional damage,
from the heartbreak that I'm concerned about,
But I am over the damage,
Well, then why did you just call yourself damaged 20 seconds ago?
Because…
the level of fear you have towards anything
that compromises this image that you've built of yourself,
is frankly a phobia,
Yet here I am…
facing my fear,
You're facing your fear of losing me,
You're not facing your fear of commitment,
Being here…
is me facing my fear of commitment,
And how's that fair on me?
Expecting me to fully commit to someone who's still facing their fear of it?
But I am committed to you,
You say that now,
But wait until you're triggered,
I'll miss a call and you'll think I'm cheating,
I'll be out of town and you'll think it's because of another man,
You have to heal…
the damage that you've carried for all of these years,
Or else you'll just carry it into the next relationship you're in,
And that to me is like the textbook definition of emotional baggage,
But what if…
What if by the time I've healed…
you've married him or something?
You were the first person I called after I left the doctor's office,
You were the only one I called,
Well, so far,
When did you go to the doctor's office?
Before I called you,
What's going on?
I'm having his child,
So you stopped using protection with him?
That's the thing, um…
protection doesn't always protect,
Well, that's true,
So like, how do you feel about what I've just said?
I'm happy for you,
Honestly?
Um…
I know,
I mean, I think uh… I think I read it somewhere,
I think I read like the stats somewhere that said…
nine out of a hundred women who are on the pill
still fall pregnant,
But it's not like they all have it,
And… And I'm not saying that you should have it,
I mean, him or her, I'm just saying I get it,
I get it,
I mean, I… I'm not stupid and I understand that…
medicine is a science but it's not an exact science,
Nothing that is man-made can ever be exact,
It's not perfect,
Because how can an imperfect human being…
create something that is perfect? I mean, that would be…
Th… Th… That would be defying science,
Wouldn't it?
Is…
Is there anything that you wanna ask me?
Are you gonna marry him now?
You were the first person I told, Taki,
You were the only one I told so far,
But what does that mean, Tumi?
What does it mean?
It means…
you'll take all the time that you need to process everything,
And I concurrently will be doing the same,
And um…
once we've processed everything,
we can…
you know, connect once we've found some sort of semblance of lucidity and…
pick this up again,
Well then…
thank you…
for the elephant in the room of a conversation,
Did we have an elephant in the room?
A big one,
And it's African too so it's the biggest of its kind,
Alright, Okay… Sorry to cut you off there, Doc,
So wait, so…
So the meditations are guided?
Keep focusing on your breath as you inhale, exhale,
And on your next exhale, allow yourself
to let go of anything that no longer serves your mind, your body,
I was on a date the other night,
Okay,
Does that make you jealous?
Not necessarily,
So…
you don't care about me?
You went on a date, which is okay because you and me are not dating,
Okay, so…
So now that you've used me, you don't care what happens,
- Wait, You feel used? - You know what I mean,
But I told you this in the beginning,
It's not some big surprise that I'm throwing at you at this very moment,
I told you I don't date, You agreed to us not dating,
I don't understand why you're using guilt as a weapon,
That's not okay,
You know…
You think you deserve no responsibility for the damage you cause,
Just because you make this big announcement in the beginning saying,
"Ah, I don't date,"
Which makes you think that your hands are clean
of all the blood you're about to shed,
The blood I'm about to shed?
Yoh,
You know what your problem is?
Well, I have a lot of those,
Do you want to hear something specific?
You're a fake,
A con,
You'd like to talk this deep talk about,
"Ooh, Joburg is so materialistic" and "Ooh, there's no life here,"
But what you fail to understand…
is that the reason why you can't find life…
is because…
there's no life in you,
So when you seek and do not find…
it is only because…
one cannot locate that which they do not recognize,
You're Geppetto,
As you take advantage
of the fact that Joburg is a wilderness
filled with dying people…
who will crawl with their manicured fingernails to the first oasis they see,
You're okay with entering my body,
But it's entering my heart that you have a problem with,
But I told you this in the beginning,
- Katlego, - Yes,
Yes, you did, Taki,
Because that's your game,
And you play your game…
well,
I just hope that one day…
you realize…
that human beings were not created to be played with,
Especially… by you,
Baby, I'm telling you, Taki is into this one,
He said he was going to go celibate,
grow his hair and be vegan for this girl,
I'm telling you no lie,
- You're an idiot, - You said that,
- He's an idiot, - He said that…
No wait now, Wait,
So what are the rules?
There are no rules,
But he said you guys aren't allowed to talk to each other,
No, we're just giving each other space,
So you guys can talk to each other?
Babs, listen, That wouldn't be giving each other space, now, would it?
I just want to know how long this is actually going to go on for, babe,
When it feels right, Um, I don't know,
Doesn't it feel right now?
It does but… I don't think I'm there yet,
But Taki… do we ever truly know when we're there?
Listen, Don't listen to her,
You do your thing and take your time,
- Thank you, my friend, - There we go,
Oh, Like you took your time with me?
Hey,
That's different, Look, you were all over me,
- Is that how you choose to remember it? - Yes, that's how…
Look, whether it is true or not…
Look, I have decided that is how I'm going to remember our courtship,
And actually, under our constitution,
I enjoyed the right to freedom of choice,
Yeah,
Even if that choice is to lie to yourself,
Per… Per… Actually…
Anyway, everybody lies to themselves and I…
Tumi's my freedom of choice,
And I choose her,
That's that esoteric thing I was telling you about,
When I'm faced with my freedom of choice,
Whether it's next year, the year after that or in a decade,
I'm always going to choose her,
You're not wrong,
Um… Uh, bro, look,
You go make the phone call,
- Yeah, I think I should make the call, - Yeah,
- You don't mind if I use it? - As long as you need,
- All right, cool, Thank you, - You go, girl!
Oh, stop it, You're going to make him lose focus, man,
Lose focus?
Do you see that guy? He… That guy is here,
- He's here, I'm telling you, - Donald, you're ridiculous, man,
- Oh yeah, that's why you love me, right? - Did you get dessert?
Uh, was I supposed to be making dessert?
No, Weren't… Weren't you making dessert?
I thought you were making it
because I'm understanding how it's been done,
Hey,
Yo,
My number's blocked,
- What? - What do you mean?
She blocked my number,
Shit, bro,
I'm sorry,
Okay, I got you,
- Yeah, okay, - Alright?
- Yeah, Oh my God, - It's okay,
I'm so sorry,
It's okay, it's okay,
Ugh,
- You okay? - I'm sorry,
It's okay, There's no need to apologize,
Okay,
I got you, Take off your shoes,
I'm okay,
Yeah,
It's alright,
I… I'm… so… I woke you up…
- It's okay, Taki, - Okay,
You don't have to apologize,
Okay,
- Okay, - Okay,
Okay, let me… Let me get this for you,
Cool,
Alright, Yeah, I think we're good,
- Okay, We're good? - Yeah,
All right, cool,
All right, Uh, the big day is finally here,
I think I'm a little bit nervous,
Since we've been trying to tie the knot forever but never could,
But uh…
we've been through our ups and downs, like every relationship,
And I've supported her, she's supported me,
And now we're going to support each other as husband and wife,
Come in,
Hey, You're in your wedding dress,
I'm not supposed to see you in your wedding dress,
It's bad luck,
Oh well, that's not a South African superstition,
So you can relax,
Can I please speak to you?
- Can you give us the room? - Yeah,
I tried, I gave you chances,
Over and over and over and over again, Bheka,
- Just once, Just-- - You still don't see me--
- No, - Just--
- So give us a chance, - And now I'm done,
- Come on, Why aren't you listening to me? - When I woke up this morning…
- I knew I couldn't, - Give us a fucking chance!
I tried to push through the doubt but the closer we got to the ceremony,
the harder it became for me to justify why I would marry this man,
You know, there are so many times that a woman can be told that she's not beautiful
before she starts to believe it herself,
And when you believe it,
you start to think that the person you're with is doing you a favor
by being with you,
But what you need to realize
is that no one who is secure within themselves
will make anyone else feel insecure about themselves,
You see, insecurity is a contagion that has no known vaccine,
And those who suffer from it
will always try to infect others with their virus,
So if the only way your Prince Charming can be with you
is by convincing you that you're not a princess,
then pause and ask yourself this question,
"Is he really a prince?"
"Or is he something much less?"
I've got great news,
I thought you would've called, babe,
No, you don't call with great news,
You say it face to face,
Okay, what is it?
I left her,
- Wow, Babe, - Yeah,
And now I can marry you,
Oh my gosh,
I'm so happy,
I'm so happy, baby,
Finally, just me and you, like we've always wanted,
Baby?
Where is he?
Where is who?
The guy you're fucking, where is he?
What?
Baby, come on,
There's nobody here, it's just me and you--
Whoever is in this flat
I want you to come out of where you are hiding right now!
Baby, what are you doing?
- Where is he? - There's nobody here,
- In the bathroom? Where? - Bheka,
In the wardrobe?
Under this bed? Where the fuck is he!?
Okay, Please…
Please, listen to me, You're scaring me, baby,
I'm going to give you five seconds!
And if you don't come out of where you are, I will look for you
and I will find you!
And when I do, I will fucking kill you!
Bheka,
- There's nobody here, babe, - Five!
- Calm down, please, - Four!
Please don't do this, baby,
- Three! - Okay,
I didn't know,
No disrespect, my man,
I am not your fucking man, Get the fuck out of here,
- This is my flat, Bheka, - Sorry, sir,
Who pays the rent?
Look, baby, I…
I'm so sorry,
Really, I…
Baby?
Listen to me, okay?
Let's talk about this,
Look at me, I don't love him,
Okay? I don't love him, I love you, I want to be with you, okay?
I met him at the gym and we just work out together sometimes,
I've been begging you to come to the gym with me but you…
Shut the fuck up!
I'm sorry,
I'm so sorry, please,
Bheka,
Please don't leave,
Please don't,
Okay, will you… will you call me at least so we can talk?
- We need to talk, babe, - No, I will not call you,
Okay, You can send me some airtime and I can… I can call you,
So… So…
Bheka,
Fuck!
I moved out,
He said that I should stay but
the spirit kept reminding me that this house
will never be a home,
Thank you for coming, Taki,
This is where I first fell in love with art,
Art was the place I felt safe,
The place I felt peace,
It was then that I also realized that…
I'm incapable of falling in love
without first feeling…
safe,
You know…
I dated this girl half a year post the human apocalypse,
And one of the reasons we ended up dating was because…
she was my friend during the Marie era,
It felt like every time I was…
sharing the shit that Marie put me through, she was just…
taking notes and…
marking down all my weak points,
I say this because…
you know how I feel for you,
I've made that abundantly clear,
You know my relationship with pain,
I did this because at no point did I think you'd use
this information as intel to conduct a fucking strike on me,
I didn't fucking strike you,
You said that we needed to process everything
and once we had processed everything, we would reconvene,
I did my processes and when I came back to reconvene,
there was no one to reconvene with,
Because you blocked me,
I didn't block you to block you,
Then you blocked me for what, Tumi?
I blocked you because I needed time,
But why didn't you just say that? I would have understood,
Would you, though?
Isn't "let's not talk indefinitely"
a concept that you're a little too stubborn to grasp?
Why wouldn't you want to talk indefinitely?
Other than your response illustrating my previous point,
it illustrates another one,
You get to make your side of this decision based on the criteria of me as a partner,
And I get to do the same of you,
However, and more importantly,
I have to consider the criteria of that of a mother,
So if that process of considering what's best for my child
takes an indefinite amount of time then so be it,
I'm prepared to lose a partner over it,
But you didn't even give me a chance,
Taki…
the chances that we get in life are a testament
to the lives that we live,
You cannot spend the majority of your adult life being a playboy
and then suddenly expect that I'm going to take a chance on you on what?
The hope that suddenly overnight change is an actual thing,
It's been a little over three months now,
I'm not going to lie and say that it's been smooth sailing,
Change is difficult,
Even positive change,
But it's always important to remember that during those sleepless nights,
when it feels like there's something pressing down on your soul,
It's always important to remember that this…
this is good pain,
And do you see how this…
you and me thing might not be a good idea anymore?
I do,
Because once you let go of something destructive…
the pain that you have left over…
is called recovery,
I had to apologize to the um…
our Dream Day people, I mean, production,
However, as bad as I felt…
It…
It was a wake-up call,
I was caught up in trying to have this…
perfect wedding…
not realizing that I was about to walk into a nightmare of a marriage,
See a wedding is…
that's a one-day event,
You can't build your life around one day,
But a marriage on the other hand,
Now that's… that's a commitment you make,
Using your life as collateral,
And I'm so tired of seeing marriage as this…
race,
You get engaged in 9,58 seconds and then you get a cash prize that comes with…
getting a ring on it,
That's imagination,
See in life-- In real life
you get called to be real,
So…
I don't know, I…
I don't know when I'll get married,
I know I do want to get married,
One day,
I just don't know the details of it,
And what he'll look like or…
where he'll be from,
I just know that he will be kind,
Because kindness is the only thing I'm willing to accept now,
I think it was…
Paolo Coelho who said--
No, it was Khalil,
One of them said this,
"And God said…"
"Love your enemy,"
"And so I obeyed,"
"And loved myself,"