So after the Guest Spot,,,
we insert the weather forecast, for the shopping channel,
All right, Same as usual,
Nanase Nishino
'Work & Soul',
At this time we ask experts in different fields,,,
to share with us the soul at the heart of their work,
Today our guest is food coordinator Miki Kashihara,
Ms Kashihara, welcome,
You're not staying?
She's better off without me there,
Oh,
Busy with the wedding?
Yesterday we were fighting again,
What about?
Sending photos is a drag,
Yeah,
And I was late with them,
That's your fault!
It happens,
Let me thank her later,
Thanks,
Now let's look at Miki Kashihara's profile,
Thank you very much,
For Wedding
HOW TO FORGET YOU
A bus accident,
Subaru,,,
thank you,
That's all I can say, but I mean it,
Our deepest condolences,
It was very sudden, so I'm sure it was an enormous shock,
If you like,,,
We're from 'Grief Care',
We get to know those who've suffered a grievous loss,
We just listen, but that can help,
I think,,,
Miki was happy,,,
being with you,
So don't forget her, will you?
Here's Miki!
Soon she might have to give up drinking!
Souvenir footage!
Let's invite the husband!
Subaru?
I'm worried about you,
You're probably confused,
I was, with your father,
I'm worried you're not eating,
Come home whenever you want, I'll be here,
Sorry to fit you in between lectures,
Thank you for your time,
We'll be interviewing for our script,
If you would,
Thank you for joining us today,
My pleasure,
Could you tell us about counseling as you understand it, Mr, Sawada?
There are some who see counsellors as 'advisors',
I do not,
The counselor has to see things from the same viewpoint,
I'm not special,
I am merely someone who will listen to you, and understand,
I must not think of trying to change you with my words,
I just listen to your heart,
I've been counseling for nearly 50 years,
Everyone has thoughts they want to speak about,
I lead people in such a way as to draw those out,
May I ask something?
Go ahead,
Will the other person,,,
hear what you say, and agree with you that easily?
Like,,,
won't what some stranger says just annoy the person involved?
Oh, It certainly takes time,
We have an expression, 'close listening',
You say nothing, and listen first,
It's important that people are not left alone,
So are there people whose 'reaction' is 'rejection'?
Yes, there are!
The worst possible reaction It starts with suspicion,
But they come to trust you,
You talked before about a stranger,
That may be so at the start, but it's building a relationship
That can be done,
Hey,
What is it?
Well,,,
I'm sorry, sir,
Oh, dear!
There's your lack of trust!
I don't know,,, maybe you should take some time off,
Don't push yourself too hard,
Or to put it another way,,,
Hm,,,
Your feelings are important,
I'm fine,
I could give someone else the script,
I'm sorry, I'll do the job,
I've looked into it, There's help,
Groups of people like you getting back on their feet,
What was that?
I got a pamphlet,
I don't like the sound of that,
Badly phrased,
Anyway, right now my mother is a problem,
Your mother?
My father's dead, Killed by some nutcase,
When it happened, all she wanted was to be left alone,
She stopped cleaning, The place was filthy, like a trash house,
Oh,
How did it affect you?
Me,,,
I was still small, I don't remember it,
Oh,
I see,,,sorry,
Maybe people who are really grieving don't go to those self-help places,
I should look into it more,
He won't move, He's sleeping,
All right,
Wait, he's awake,
Here,
Hello?
Subaru?
Yeah,
Smarten up,
Please!
Listen to me,
Subaru?
Subaru!
Hi,
It's hot,
It's great weather!
How long has it been?
Five years? More?
Are you back at work?
My old hospital found me a new place,
It's mainly at the hospital, but I make some house calls,
I bought this car, too Second-hand, though,
Even an old lady like me wants to be needed by someone,
Huh?
Who are you?
The guy in here,
Oh yeah, that was today,
Howdy,
Sorry I left this stuff in here I haven't touched anything,
Sorry, but who are you?
Nobody said?
Yes,,,no,
We're odd-jobbers,
From Takayama, We met Yoko a little while ago,
Oh,
Do you want this stuff out of here right away?
No, It's fine,
Oh,,,howdy,
You want in here? It's going to stink!
Want to eat before you go?
Good idea, I'll help,
Fine, Wash your hands,
Just did,
Hello? Hello?
Sorry, I hear you,
How are things down there? Can you chill out?
Well,,,
some things have changed,
Oh, about your email, that group It's near here,
Oh, right,
I found one near you,
Well,,,
What do you think?
Well, yeah,,,
I'll send details,
OK, thanks,
I'm looking at it now, It's called 'Moonlight Meet-up',
'Moonlight Meet-up',,,
Here we are,
Thank you,
Furukawa Middle?
Same school, I'm your Senior,
Makita says he was born here,
Things happened, and I moved away,
For 20 years?
Maybe, I came back last year,
You've got a respiratory problem,
He doesn't like doctors, but I was friends with Yoko,
Have you quit drinking?
Of course!
Yeah, sure!
Subaru, why did you come back?
Huh?
To register,
There's some real estate properties Some are still in his father's name,
Inheritance tax?
Real estate! Great!
He's set for life!
Land's cheap at twice the price now,
Twice the price?
Meaning expensive?
Wow! I'm jealous,
Mom?
Yes?
May I?
Sure,
What is it?
When did you meet them?
Hm?
Those two,
Oh,
Six months ago?
They were struggling, They've both had a lot happen,
They've cleaned the place up, so I guess they're done here,
Why? Did you think I was just lonely?
No,
They're both pretty cheerful,
What about you? Are you going to see any friends?
No,
Not now,
You sleep in here?
I'm off work tomorrow, Shall we go somewhere?
Tomorrow,,,
That spaghetti place we used to go, It's been redone,
I've got work,
Oh,
Can I work downstairs?
Sure,
Good night,
Miki,,,
Arms, from the front, elbows back, fists above hips,
Good morning, Are you going out?
Yeah,
Need a lift?
I'm fine,
'Bye, then,
I'll see you,
You're the interviewer?
Yes,
Hello, I'm Ushimaru from 'Moonlight',
I'm Morishita,
Mr, Morishita,
How do you do,
Could you follow me inside?
I did get the certification, but I'm not really sure of myself,
People told me I should do it,
What sort of things do you do?
What things?
We just get together and talk,
Sometimes we go out to eat, or play baseball,
Just like a kind of club,
And what do you say?
What words do you use?
What do I say? Nothing in particular,
When you're starting, you just listen,
But you host the group,
Yes,
But I do my best not to tell people things,
'Do your best' or 'you'll be fine',,,
or 'your late wife in heaven doesn't want to see you sad,'
I never say that,
Do those in heaven,,,
really not want to see people sad?
I wonder,,,
If I died and went to heaven,,,
I'd like to see my family at least a little bit sad,
If you passed away, and the people you left didn't care,,,
you'd probably think, 'Huh?'
I guess so,
Hello,
Come on in,
School?
Work,
Work, huh?
I forgot this,
Hello,
Hi,
I'll briefly explain the rules,
There's the duty of confidentiality, meaning don't repeat outside,,,
what you've heard here,
The other day I was in the dentist's waiting room,
A little girl was reading,
Her mother said 'time's up' and snatched the book away,
The girl was very surprised,
But she didn't cry,
'She's just like me,' I thought,
Just like you how?
Her story was taken away,
She was sent to somewhere dark, with nothing there,
Then,,,
I was in the car or somewhere, with no idea what was going on,
I was,,,crying,
'I'm so sad,' I was thinking,
I heard my husband calling me,,,
'Mami', the way he used to,
If I drank coffee, and I thought, 'This is good!',,,
I'd feel like he was beside me, and we'd talk,
And doing that, little by little,,,
I understood,,,
the feeling of grief I had inside me, and I was able,,,
to move on,
How long have you been doing this?
It's been about two years now,
Most people stay about six months,
How much time,,,
Sorry?
Um,,,
Is something changed with the passage of time?
Good question!
Looking at faces,,,
you get a sense that there's a change,,,
in the way people remember someone they've lost,
Their relationship with that person,
It's strange to talk of a relationship with someone you'll never see again,
How can I put it?
You don't see them,,,
but still they change,
Mr, Morishita,,,here,
Thank you,
We're having a barbecue,
Would you like to come?
Is that OK?
Of course, Join us,
Could I?
Sure,
Fine,
Great!
Hey! She's still eating, Leave it!
I'm sorry,
No one's touched it,,,
What?!
I'm sorry!
Mr, Ikeuchi! I'm sorry, She's new here,
Tell her!
I'm sorry, Would you like some tea?
No, I'm fine,
Your companion?
She's fine,
There he goes again!
You know him?
Yes, sort of,
That was bad, Are you OK?
How rude!
I'll go for a smoke,
I won't inhale,
Will those dogs be at the barbecue?
Good evening,
Still at it, are you?
You missed again today, Mr, Ikeuchi,
A new guy?
Mr, Morishita came to interview us,
Good,
Good?
A negative aura,
Good,
You can sense that?
Good,
How? Illness? Accident?
Hey!
An accident,
Just like me!
Traffic,
Hey hey hey!
Ask me anything, Let's talk,
Later,
So you've lost someone, too?
Let's be bad kids,
No, don't run away!
Come on,
Your girl?
Yes,
I see,
Smoke?
I'm good,
I quit, I'm fine,
Why?
She didn't like it,
You can smoke now,
Here,
Why not just let it all go?
Those people are depressing,
Just have a good time,
You were arguing back there in the restaurant,,,
Terrible, isn't it,
Puri was still eating,
'Puri'?
She's in there,
My dead wife,
I say 'dead', but she's there,
Are you,,,
imagining things?
I'm not imagining things,
So she's a ghost or something?
No, she's not a ghost or anything,
Whatever,
It's lonely on your own right?
Would you like to see your girl?
How do you see your wife?
The normal way,
Normal?
Is she sort of drifting, or do you see her clearly?
Clearly, I guess,
She died in an accident?
That's right,
So she appears all bloody?
Bloody?
She appears the way she wants to,
Oh,
'Don't stare like that!' she says,
Sorry,
So what did you call her?
Uh,,,
Miki,
Miki?
No, I mean, like,,,
when you were being sweet,
Oh,
Sweet, huh?
'Mii',
'Mii'?
'Mii',
'Mii'?
'Mii',
Mii!
That's it!
Play up to her,
Right?
Then he'll see her,
You loved her, right?
There's nothing strange about seeing her, then,
Really?
There isn't?
What?! So you see her?
Once, but I think I was just imagining it,
Right!
That's not your imagination, That's your chance!
Then you act sweet to her!
Like,,,like,,,
Can you think of anything?
A memory?
Yeah!
A memory,,,
Right?
Wait,,,
Anything,
Mii,,,
it's ready,
Curry, just like you taught me,
Hi, Momo, Good girl!
Here's some fuel,
Thanks,
Where's Mr, Morishita?
I just saw him, Maybe he's with Mr, Ikeuchi,
Mr, Ikeuchi?
It's OK if I tag along?
It's no fun with all those people,
Next time let's the four of us go,
Uh-huh,
Slow down, Puri!
Hey!
Yeah, OK,
Slow down!
Feels good, huh?
Yeah,
Hey!
Wait up!
After Puri died,,,
I was cleaning the house and I found a blouse,
I kept it, I had it cleaned and hung it in the house,
And then,,,
she appeared,
She must have wanted that,
She loved clothes, but she held off on buying them because I'd get mad,
Here we go,
Say 'cheese',
One more,
'Cheese',
That's great!
Take one of us,
Sure,
Here goes,
OK,
Yay,
Was that OK?
Now I'll take you,
Here goes, Ready,
'Cheese',
Good,
One more, 'Cheese',
Wow! Come and take a look,
Looking good, right?
A gas burner's easier than an induction stove,
This much?
OK, Let's eat,
Sit,
Say something,
'Koji Morishita' is erased from the deed,
Thank you,
Mom,,,
why didn't you remarry?
What's this?
There was no one else than him,
Your father was number one,
No one could beat him,
Remember that,
This is really good,
So tell me,,,what's it like with Miki?
Do you talk to Puri?
Yeah,
She talks too much,
'I do not!' she says,
So,,,
does Miki stay quiet?
Maybe,,,
I've got it wrong?
No,
It's not a question of right or wrong,
I wonder,,,
is it maybe that,,,
you don't love each other enough?
Hm? No?
It's longer with us,
Hey! Careful!
What are you doing?!
Oh, I see,
Having said that, you're not always listening to the patient,
What should I do with this curry?
Oh,,,I'll eat that,
OK,
You put in sake?
I do that, too,
It brings out the taste, He likes it,
It was her idea, I thought it would taste awful,
What kind of person was she?
What kind?
Ordinary,
Ordinary? That sounds sad,
I don't remember her very well now, I've forgotten stuff,
Like what?
Things like her voice, It's all hazy,
No video?
I've decided not to watch,
Why?
Why not?
Why do you ask?
Sorry,
He's ill,
Sometimes I imagine,
Is that what it's like? Forgetting doesn't frighten you?
It does,
Then try not to,
Impossible,
Do I feel bad because I remember or because I'm forgetting?
It's hard,
Hard,
If that water made me forget, I'd drink it in a flash,
What? That's terrible!
Hey!
I don't understand at all,
You're all wrapped up in yourself, Didn't anyone ever say that?
You poor guy,
There's such a thing as privacy, you know,
Self-defense,
Against what?
There was eyewitness testimony,
It was a kid, about 18,
20 years later, now Makita's 40,
At that time, too, the killer,,,
had a hoodie draped over his shoulders,
And?
The police?
I wanted the police to check Makita's blood type, but they wouldn't,
Did you ask them if he did it?
Of course not,
But he often goes out drinking alone, so he might try something,
So I watch him, secretly,
Even now?
You identified the wrong guy once before, That caused a lot of trouble,
Trouble?
I don't cause people trouble,
Certainly not you,
I let you do whatever you wanted,
You went to university in Tokyo without talking to me,
I've paid all your tuition!
OK, that's enough,
Hey,
Hey!
It doesn't matter,
I'm just playing at revenge,
I imagine things, That's the truth,
Like what your dad would want,
You don't need to worry about that,
Why not?
Keep on and you'll never forget,
You have to live your own life,
Just like that?
You make it sound so easy!
How do you think your father felt?
Leaving you behind, leaving me,,, how do you think he felt?
You have no idea!
No,
And what about you, anyway?
You won't drive,
You were nervous in the car when I picked you up,
You're still riding a bike,
Look, I'm worried,
What about your place in Tokyo?
Leave me alone,
No,
What are you going to do, huh?
What?
Let go, Mom,
Let go,
Why?
Let me go!
Leave me alone,
Let's show some spirit! Go, Mr, Morishita!
That was terrible!
You were lousy, Haven't you played before?
Really clumsy, right?
He almost fell in that river, too,
The other day, when I pulled you out,
Yeah, So what?
So?
So nothing,
What, you didn't realize?
Hm? It was close, right?
It was close, You didn't sense her dragging you over there?
There?
What's wrong?
Nothing, I'm fine,
'Nothing, I'm fine',
People who are fine don't come here to talk about grief,
Watch it!
Sorry!
You OK?
What about you?
Me? I'm not in the group,
Yet here you are,
Yeah,
You're worst off of us all,
Why?
Pretending you see your dead wife,
Pretending?
Get real,
Yeah, This is my reality,
No,
Puri's not here,
Sure she is,
Where?
Right?
Right here,
Hey!
You OK?
Where is she?
Right here,
Hey!
She's here, damn it!
What are you doing?!
Where?
Cut it out!
She's not here!
Puri's gone!
Stop!
She's not here!
Mr, Morishita! Stop!
Stop, will you!
What's wrong?
You OK?
What happened?
Hey, wait!
Come with me,
Mr, Ikeuchi!
Huh?
Yoko? What brings you here?
A drink,
Will you join us?
I was heading home,
Oh,
Midori can drive you,
I'm fine, I have my car,
Oh,
But you're here to drink?
You come past here a lot, Yoko,
I saw you over in that parking lot, What were you doing there?
There was a string of muggings by someone on a motorcycle,
Snatch-and-grab attacks,
The last victim fought back and was dragged,
He died back there,
My husband,
What?
I remember that,
They even questioned me, They said I looked like the guy,
Did they do a blood test?
No, they didn't,
I thought there was something funny,
Why were you all friendly with someone like me?
Now I get it,
Both of us,
My dad died of the same condition I have,
He was a lousy dad,
But now I think maybe there was some good in him,
You've suffered, too,
It's OK,
No answer,
Maybe his phone's off,
Whoa!
Mr, Ikeuchi!
You were here?
Are you okay?
Leave me alone,
I can't do that,
So,,,
am I crazy?
Well?
I am, right?
I am,
Everyone says so,
The nutcase who talks to,,,
his dead wife,
I'll stop,
I will,
What good will that do?
She comes to you,
Your wife comes to you,
If you've called her, then so what?
Lots don't come when you call them,
I didn't do a funeral,
A funeral,
'Why did you come back?' I said,
I was never unfaithful not even once,
Maybe because I loved her too much?
'We haven't said goodbye,' she says,
'We haven't said a proper goodbye,'
I should say goodbye, right?
What do you want to do?
Me,,,
I guess I still don't want to say goodbye,
Yes,
I'll hurry up on the manuscript and send it off right away,
Goodbye,
You're not always listening to the patient,
The patient's time outside of counselling is also important,
Don't they say that love grows even when you're apart?
How is that other person doing, what are they eating?
But you're not constantly thinking about them all the time you're apart,
Best is when you forget, then remember again,
They say that people live in your memory, don't they,
Yoko, are you here? Yoko!
Yoko!
It came on all of a sudden,
Yes, We're on our way,
Oh,,,yes, that's right,
Yes,
The question is whether he'll make it to the hospital, I should do first aid,
He'll live, won't he?
He needs to quit drinking,
Ken!
It won't be long now,
Are you OK? Hang in there,
Sorry, can you help me?
Ken! Ken!
Go faster,
Ken?
Come on, Ken, hang in there!
Hang in there, Ken!
Ken!
Will he be okay?
Ken! Hang in there! Ken!
You did it right, didn't you?
He'll live, right?
I don't decide,
Let Father decide,
You didn't inject him,
What do you mean?
That's not right,
I don't think that's right, Mom,
Is that what Dad says he wants you to do?
He wants you to decide?
Did you hear him say that?
Which?
It's fine if you did,
But it's wrong to just imagine things,
Whose voice are you hearing now mine or Dad's?
Which one?
Thank you, Dr, Morishita,
Sorry to keep you waiting,
Not at all, Is there anything new?
No, there isn't,
For 20 years you've come every month, We've tried every thing we can,
The police can only do so much,
I see,
Yes, I guess so,
I'll see you, Mr, Hasegawa
People are always in touch with their emotions,
That's all, Thank you very much,
Not at all, I'll look forward to the program,
Um,,,
Subaru-sensei, how's the work going?
That sudden radio thing tomorrow is making me nervous,
Sorry for recording here,
Um,,,
Do you know how scary you look when you're working?
Like, 'don't talk to me,'
Yesterday, too,
But,,,
Yeah,,,
I won't ask about going to meet your mother again,
I was glad you agreed to meet my parents,,,
so I thought you'd be happy doing the same,
Sorry for going on and on about it,
I wanted to tell you that,
It's dawn already,
When did we last have breakfast together?
If you like, let's meet up at the station,
Let's walk home together sometimes,
Miki,,,
what do you think, seeing me now?
Do you think,,,
I'm lonely?
I hope so,
Then I won't be,
Mii?
From now on,,,
I'll find new things,
Beautiful things,,,
Things that taste good,,,
Things that make me mad,,,
More things to talk about,,,
and more things I don't understand,,,
where I'll wonder what you'd think,
And then I'll remember you,
Be there, even if I can't see you,
Even if I forget,,,
I'll remember you,
For Wedding
Drag and drop to upload
Run, Mr, Ikeuchi!
Run!
Again?
Go! Go!
What?
Did you know the other day was your father's birthday?
Oh,
I remember, but then on the day I forget, and have to apologize,
'Sorry, Father,'
So did you find a new place?
Yeah,
Not by a river? A higher place is better,
Yeah, It's a nice place,
Maybe I'll come visit Tokyo,