Can you tell, How did you meet each other?
It was summer,
It was a kind of party,
I was there with a close friend,
- You need something to drink, - Hi, How nice,
I was pretty lost, I was in the middle of a bride,
I had been too long in a very bad relationship,
No,
I had two young children, which needed me all the time,
Hello, I'll come right away, I just have to say goodnight,
I had projects and tried to establish myself,
And then he was there suddenly,
And strangely enough, it was as if I knew him, It was so ,,,
"There you are,"
"Where have you been in all that time?"
I've never had it like that with anyone before,
- Hi, - Hi,
I feel I know you,
- I just feel like I know you, - Yes?
Okay, Yes,
For many months I pondered over, How to get hold of him,
I sought out all the places, I could run into him,
Could I grab him? It was not given in advance,
There were many, who wanted him,
It should succeed, Otherwise, I would never forgive myself,
And then one night we were the same place,
I'll take it, Can I pay with Vipps?
He had freedom,
And a lot of friends,
I had kids,
And he loved them from the first,
Yes, That's how it was,
Hello? Yes,
Yes, I wrote that project description yesterday,
I'll call later, Because there's a little chaotic here, Hello,
Mikael, down,
Unfortunately, it was rejected,
So ,,, then we just have to see,
Unfortunately, it was also rejected,
No, no, no,
You have to transfer some money, There is no one on the card, Mikael, stop then,
Hello,
- The bright or the one with glitter? - I'm going to make shit,
- Then go to the bathroom, - You don't care,
- Ludvig, can you empty the dishwasher? - Why? Alma messed in the kitchen,
- That's how, Stella, - What should we have to eat?
- Father picks us up in three quarters, - We should have delivered it here,
No, no, no, Stella, Not that,
- Mom, I'm done! - Alma, can you help him?
I'm not going to wipe him,
- I have to pack, - Now do, as I say,
- Then I have to do without, - We arrange it, Ludvig,
Last I was the only one, that did not have a bus map,
He doesn't want me to do it, It stinks,
Well, Then you take Stella,
- You didn't come last weekend, - There was a tournament, so it didn't work,
You have to arrange it with me first, After all, the kids waited for you,
You can't just do as you like, and never take the phone,
- Okay, Are you ready? - I pick up my headphones,
Out!
- I just want to talk to you, - Close the door, Go out,
It's not nice for you, When Dad and I talk like that,
- So it hurts! - I say you have to close the door!
- I haven't done anything, - You're so annoying, Go!
- Now it's enough! - I hate you!
Dad, may I not live with you? I can't live here anymore,
It may well be,
- My girl, Small honey, - Your breath stinks,
Hi, my sweet boy, Look me in the eyes when you say goodbye,
You're 40 years old! And I invite you to Barcelona! I love you,
- Hi, - Hi,
I bought wool underwear for the kids, I hope it fits,
There are so many things to remember,
- How's you going with you? - How do you think?
It's not okay, That you never come on time,
We just went over time so there wasn't so much I could do,
You don't answer when I call,
I ran out of power,
Where do you look good,
Was it good?
Yes, it went pretty well, After all, I've played with a couple of the others before,
But the producer went out from, That I should do
something else - - so we spent some time solving together,
Yes, But I was pretty tired, Or out of shape,
I often sleep bad at hotel, So I get groggy, - and
then it spread out all over the day, It was tough,
Yes, it must be really hard to sleep at the hotel and ,,,
It's cool to be home again,
Wednesday was frustrating,
It all went crooked, So we spent several hours on ,,,
There has been something with Mikael at school again,
He has thrown stones through a window, They want a conversation
- - but I've said we have to wait for you so we can do it together,
Okay, Let's do it, It's good you say that,
I like you,
- I don't like you, - Can't you?
It was sour,
It's strictly of you to leave me here alone, It's a hell,
I should report you to the police for murder
attempts - - because I had nearly not survived today,
When I could finally cook, Went the smoke alarm,
It have you hung so high up, That I had to stack three chairs,
I saw myself in the mirror, And the sight was
so terrible - - that you would have hung yourself,
I love you,
- And then my project got refusal today, - Oh no,
You can't just say "Oh no",
I just don't succeed for me,
You may not draw conclusions based on one time,
They don't want me and that, I have to offer,
Don't think like that, You have plenty to offer,
You are strong and truth -seeking, You could have chosen an easier road,
You didn't, That's why I like you,
You must believe that it succeeds, Try to look at the big picture,
After all, you work all the time, Then I can't achieve anything,
When I have to be at home with the kids, Can't I concentrate,
I have had to cancel important meetings due to lice and dental times,
It's not going, I can't concentrate,
Now I have to be home for two weeks, Then you can work,
Two weeks? Are you taking piss on me?
- You shouldn't travel anymore, - It wasn't quite certain,
Yes, it was, Have you said yes to more work?
Your applications were uncertain, And we need to have an income,
- Did you count on I would fail? - No, stop now,
I don't want it like that,
I don't have time to breathe or to make it succeed,
It's not just you, that must work,
It's too late to jump from now, There are two weeks to,
- I have to cancel things all the time, - I might never be hired again,
Then you can feel a little bit, How I feel,
Yes, I understand that well,
Yes,
I am glad to hear that, That's also what I was trying to do,
Yes, a lot, Yes, of course,
Yes, That sounds really good,
I totally agree,
Yes, I thought the same thing,
Yes then, We go high up in this, So it's good to talk about it,
Well,
Do you take the parent conversation over the phone?
Yes, we really appreciate that,
Not true? Yes, it's important to stand together,
- We need to have that conversation together, - I have to say that to her,
- Can you put on? - Well, we'll keep in touch,
- Can you put on? - We are talking about, Have a good time,
What the hell are you doing?
Did you take the parent conversation over the phone? Did you do that?
Why not? Åsa rang, You said, That we had exposed it too long,
- There were things we had to talk about, - Yes, who we were to talk about,
We have exposed it, Because you've been away,
I said we had to wait for you, So we could all be present,
I shouldn't ask you about everything?
I postponed it for your sake, And then you just shit on me,
Now you can relax, We agreed, That someone comes and is investigating him,
Did you agree?
Yes,
You can't just arrange that, Without being in the conversation,
After all, he doesn't need an investigation,
You have no idea what he needs,
Are you stupid in the head, or what? Are you?
You can't just come home that way,
You just trample in without asking me,
Why are you doing that?
Can you answer me? Why are you doing that?
Do you fuck in what I think? Damn taking you!
So hold up! Can't you see, I'm trying to help you?
Don't you see I am trying to do something good? I can't handle anymore!
Mary,
What's the matter?
This, it ,,, It's not going,
- What are you talking about? - It's not going,
You ,,, You must get help with your anger,
Help?
Yes, You have to go on angry management course or something like that,
- I can't stand it, - I can't either,
- Mary, I mean that, - So do I,
But it's not me, There must be on course, Maybe it's you,
What you are doing ,,, I get sick of it,
What I am up to? What you are doing is making me sick,
You are also angry, Look at you now, After all, you are pissed off,
You can't think, - - that I need to
change, Because you did something nasty,
Besides, you were at least as angry as me,
Hello,
Who wants breakfast?
Okay, Please,
Are you going to ,,,? No, no, no ,,, have you seen?
Can you wipe it up? Thank you, It helps a lot,
It got a little ,,, Do you need more?
Good morning, There is coffee on the pitcher, If you want,
Mother!
- Mom! - Stella!
- Mikael, now we'll go soon, - Okay,
Come on,
- Okay, dad, - Yes ,,,
Now we have to go, Mikael,
Come, Yes!
- Help, father, - Yes, now we have to go,
- Why it? - Then we have to put it on,
I want to work with myself, But you also have your share in this,
Such, Wait for dad,
You don't want to get divorced?
Want to get divorced?
So answer me though,
Dad is coming now,
- Who's going to put up? - Me,
Are you going to sleep here?
I have a headache, I need to sleep,
- Can't we talk together? - I'm not able to do now, Maria,
- Can't we sleep together? - I'm not doing so well,
I can't just change,
You know how out I am, I can't handle it,
You wake the kids,
We can talk about it tomorrow, It's late now,
- Have you met someone else? Is that? - No, not at all,
What is it?
- What is it? - We can talk about it tomorrow,
Such, So now we have to sleep,
I can't handle this,
I can't be here, When so,
- No, - "No"?
I'll move out until you know, what you want, You can take the kids,
- Okay, - “Okay”?
Okay,
Do you think that's good, That I just take away?
That was your suggestion, If you need it, that's fine,
I can't be here, When so,
Just do what is best for you,
So you mean it's best for me?
Mikael, do you think I'm very angry?
Mary, let him be,
- Mikael, do you think mom is angry? - Hold up!
He would have said that, If he thought so,
You can at least give me a hug,
I love you,
Shut up, where are you just joint,
- Thank you so much, That's so nice of you, - It was just missing,
- I'll call you, Good luck, - Thank you, in just the way, Hi, Hi,
You have called Sigmund, Put a message, Then I'll call back,
Put a message, Then I'll call back,
If your anger is ruining the relationship with
your family - - then you can get help dealing with it,
The offer is for anyone over 18 years of age, Who struggles with anger and violence,
It is important to address your problem
- - because it hurts the rest of the family,
Hold up!
- Hi, - What are you doing here?
I'll just come to meet you, We might go to a café,
Don't come here, It's wildly embarrassing,
It is not embarrassing then, That I come to say hi,
- Now just go, mom, Okay? - It's a hurtful thing to say,
I just come to be nice, You don't have to talk to me like that,
Mom, don't come here,
Why not? I never get past,
Is it so terrible to get a visit once?
I thought you might think, It was nice, But no,
God, how embarrassed! Your mother came by to say hello,
- You are insane after all, - Then go,
Yes, just go, Please!
Sorry, Alma, It was stupid, I'm sorry that it was so,
You have called Sigmund, Put a message, Then I'll call back,
Hello, That's me,
I just wanted to hear how it goes,
If you are going into the city tomorrow, Could you then bring my eczema cream with?
It is located on the top shelf on the left of the bathroom,
It is itching a lot now, It itches much more than usual,
So I might not be able to sleep, and ,,, I may have to go to the doctor but ,,,
Can't you ,,,? Call or write to me,
I forgot by the way some socks, And panties,
If you can also take it with ,,, And then ,,, okay ,,,
Good night,
I'm in the middle of a meeting,
So I could only find the blue panties, There was stress this morning,
And then it was this cream, right?
Have you come closer what you want?
I think it's good with time and space for both of us,
It's important for me not to define anything right now,
But ,,, I have to go in again,
Remember to give Mikael the vortema,
- It needs to be lubricated every week, - I've done that,
And then the thermo bottle ,,, when I was going to rinse it, it smelled terrible,
You must completely separate it and rinse it in boiling water,
And then I never gave you this,
Read it,
I'll probably find childcare, Then you know
what awaits us - - if we find back together,
But the trip is paid so you can also travel with some others,
I am going in again,
I had been looking forward to working, But I can't do that now,
I don't get any income, So you have to handle all the bills,
I am going in, So I don't lose my job,
But I want to work,
I don't understand, Why you do this,
- I can't talk about it now, - Is it because I'm not good enough?
Had I improved me, Then you hadn't done it - -
but I can't improve, I am doing as good as I can,
I am worn out and have sacrificed all that, As I dreamed of doing,
- I'm just shit, - Don't beat yourself,
- I'm not worth a fuck, - Don't,
If I get on angry handling course - -
or on psychiatric, You want me then?
Can't you just say, What I have to do?
You, you ,,, Look at me,
Now I go in and you have to get along, You have to talk to someone,
He's not going to want to get divorced,
I can't believe that, He just needs some space,
I don't know, I feel that anything can happen,
I don't know who he is anymore, I don't understand what he's doing,
He had not been in a longer relationship before you,
- And then he met Dracula, - Yes, he was a little unlucky,
But he doesn't have that experience, As
you have - - with children and past conditions,
- He's been in relationship, - Yes, half a year,
But he has not been a place where you have to work to move on,
It just sounds like you have to do in therapy,
He will not, He just wants, That I change,
You can't say that,
Then he has to say that in front of a third person,
If he is so scared to show up to an
outsider - - then there is something he hides,
Has he gone in therapy before? No, Does he talk to his friends about it?
No, I'm his only valve,
If he really wants to get divorced - - then
mediation is mandatory, If you have children,
- Maybe he will be part of that, - Yes, that's minimal,
- Hi, Maria and Sigmund? - Yes,
Hello, Hello,
Follow me,
So Sigmund says he is experiencing - - that
he has no space, And that he feels locked in,
Yes, I get sick of it, Or ,,, I don't know,
It's hard to separate things now, Maybe that's why I need space,
Space? You are always away, And I knuckle at home,
You have plenty of space after all,
When it's my turn to work, Then you still work,
I ask you to cancel, And then you want to get divorced!
I understand you have a lot on heart, But can we focus on Sigmund first?
- Is it okay with you, Maria? - Yes,
What makes it difficult for you to take the space you need?
It's not that easy to say,
There is a difference between privacy and working life,
You have one of the parts, And I have none of the parts,
So Mary is in everything and everywhere,
I don't know, How to explain it,
I just have no place,
I have no trading room, I don't have space in the home,
There is no room for anyone now, It's a hectic time,
What you say, Make me curious, Sigmund,
What makes it difficult for you to take that space?
I don't know, Whether it's difficult ,,,
No? What do you mean? That you just don't get a seat?
Yes ,,, there are so many conflicts all
the time - - especially if I try to take a seat,
Do you think it's difficult? With conflicts?
Yes, it's strenuous,
Is that only Mary's fault, That you do not
have space - - or can you do something yourself?
I don't know, I honestly don't know what to say,
There is so much anger, That I can't see clearly,
Of course one gets angry, When you stand with all the responsibility alone,
I also take a lot of responsibility, After all, I've looked after your kids,
- It has cost something, - Are we going to count on it now?
I am happy then all that, You have given the big children - -
but it has also cost something, that you have come into their lives,
Had I only had them, would i be free now,
We're just going through this, The kids are little, We never have babysitter,
With an uncertain economy and four children, it is clear that we must stay together,
- I've been divorced before, and ,,, - This is from the winter holidays,
Have you recorded it?
That's the only thing you need to remember! But you just shit on it!
- It's taken out of context, - We don't need to hear that,
Lord Jemini!
Do you never get angry, Sigmund?
No ,,, I don't know,
It must then make you angry, That Mary gets so angry with you,
If you don't even know you're angry, Is it perhaps a problem in itself,
But can you understand, That your anger affects him?
It's complicated,
I don't think the solution is, That I need to learn anger management,
Why should I be downgraded, In order for you to get more
space - - when you are already it, that has the most space?
I think we need to solve it together - -
and I'm willing to go into couples therapy,
There I'm not right now,
Okay, Now the hour has gone soon, And we have to finish in a little while,
But I would like to summarize and clarify where we are in the process,
Maria, you would like to continue working on the relationship,
Sigmund, what are you thinking now?
Yes ,,,
I'm unsure of, Whether I want to continue,
You must then be able to say something, After all, I can't live in uncertainty,
You must be able to say, Whether you want to try or not,
After all, it's cursed, I have no idea, What I have to relate to,
This is demanding for Mary, I understand that,
Maria would like to move home and know, what she has to relate to,
Yes, I understand that,
Can we set a deadline for a clear answer to Mary?
Okay,
What do you mean, Sigmund? A day or a week?
That is good, If the waiting time doesn't get that long,
I imagine a few days,
Yes? It's all time,
Can we say before Wednesday night?
Is that fine with you, Maria?
Then I think, That we should see you again on Thursday,
Then we can talk a little about the road together or separately,
I think that's important,
Sorry, Are we done? I think it's the work that ,,,
I would just like to check some personal information,
Yes,
He had to send a response before tonight,
He should probably answer, Doesn't he usually hold what he promises?
Yes, Maybe apart from the marriage promises,
It should probably go, This ,,, Do you know what? I'm just thinking ,,,
I don't know ,,, What do you think he is writing?
I think ,,, can't you try not to think about it?
Breathe with the stomach, And get some sleep,
He loves you, I know he does,
If he goes from you, he is an idiot, And he is not,
I'm lying down now, You may send that message soon,
It took a long time to put the kids, Has sent an email now,
Dear Mary, - - First I want to thank
you for all our lovely moments together,
It has meant a lot to me,
You may probably prepare for, That I want out of the relationship,
You have called Sigmund, Put a message,
Mother!
I'm not doing this!
You must prepare for, That I want out of the relationship,
You have called Sigmund, Put a message, Then I'll call back,
I come and take the kids now, Then you can take wherever you want,
I can manage without you, I will never talk to the kids about you,
I don't bother to be here anymore, So now I come home,
You may want to confirm, That you received this message,
It's ok that you take over the kids,
Did he write that?
So it ,,, it's all time,
- It's sad that you feel that way, - cute ,,,
I'm just a little miserable,
It goes, I have a lot to do, I need to clean up and take a shower,
I must have sent a lot of emails too,
I can get here, After I have been to Uni,
I sleep here tonight,
It's incredibly neat of you, But I am doing,
- You don't have to, - Okay,
So call me if there is anything,
- Do you promise? - Yes, I'm calling,
- Hi, Hi, - Okay, Hi, Hi,
- Hi, - I think we have to wait for Sigmund,
He has just written, That he doesn't come,
- Why not? - He didn't write anything about that,
For the hell too,
But when you have this hour anyway, You might want to come in?
- Alone? - Maybe you get something out of it,
Now maybe this was something other than what you were waiting for,
I don't understand, why i have to sit
here - - when it's him, that needs it,
Should he not do any work?
Yes, I think he will have to one way or the other,
It is not so important what he does, What is important to you
now is - - that you focus on getting control of what you are carrying,
What do you mean by that?
That's a very big question,
We can put out to consider, What is your share in this,
My share? After all, it's him who wants to go, Do you think I've provoked it?
- Do you think so? - No,
I don't know what you're thinking about,
Is there nothing in the situation here, which you are responsible for?
Yes, I probably have little share in it, But it is not
that important - - when it is him who wants to divorce,
That's fine, Then we grab the small proportion that is yours,
Okay,
Last you told how it was, When he got home from work,
How he would take the job and took the parent interview - -
without listening to you first and then suddenly would be divorced,
- Yes, - Can you tell you again?
- I've already told it, - Yes, but try to tell you again,
Tell about when he came home after being away for six weeks,
I was very tired,
I put in the dishwasher, And then he came in the door,
And what happens inside you, When you see him?
I will be glad to see him, I can feel that I love him,
And what happens?
He is happy, He comes towards me and wants to hug me,
I go towards him, Then he holds me in,
And then you hug him too?
Not that long,
Don't you want to hug him?
No, I really won't,
Why not, When you are so glad to see him?
- I don't know, - What happens?
Then he comes in and helps me with what I'm doing,
Is there anything you omit now?
As you stop hugging him, So what does he do?
I don't know, He might be a little surprised or upset,
And you?
I look away,
In what way do you look away?
- I don't know, - Why are you doing that?
Why are you looking away the way you do?
I want, That he feels lousy,
- Why do you want that? - I don't know,
- Is that something he has done? - Yes, he has traveled from us,
- But you have agreed? - Yes,
- and you have approved it? - Yes,
Why do you want, then, That he feels lousy?
I don't know,
What happens then?
- He talks about the work, - Does he like to share it with you?
- Yes, he's happy, Tells, - and you?
- I want him to stop, - Why?
I just think it's uncomfortable, So I interrupt him,
What do you say?
There has been something with Mikael at school again,
Should Sigmund feel that it is his responsibility that Mikael has problems?
I know well, That it is not his responsibility,
But he must feel anyway, That it is his responsibility?
- Yes, - Why?
Because it has happened, While he's been away,
But do you think there's something else, Sigmund could have done?
No,
But anyway you want, That he feels guilty,
Yes,
Why?
Why do you want, That he feels lousy?
Do you have in several situations wanted, That he should feel like that?
See if you can remember the times, where you have done the same,
Are you okay?
What happens in that situation?
I don't want, Because it doesn't feel nice,
Because I feel stupid,
If he sees I'm excited, Will he make me laugh,
I will not accept all that joy,
- Hi, I can take over, - Otherwise thanks,
- You don't know if clothes are if, - Yes,
Once you've put clothes together, I find my panties in Michael's drawer,
After all, you can't even know the difference between wool and cotton,
Yes, yes, Now just sit down,
No, You are never here, You don't know if clothes are if,
It ends up anyway, That I have to do it,
- Okay, If is this? - yours?
Yes, that's mine,
Really nice, Sigmund, See here, Doesn't it fit well?
It's Michaels,
What about them here?
It's Alma's pants,
These are night pants, Ludvig's night pants,
There you can just see,
I think you've known for a long time, That he would go from you,
I have a hard time believing that, After all, you've knuckled for your relationship,
It's you who's the vulnerable, It's him who will go,
Maybe I expected it because Dad went from Mom when I was a kid,
I may have unconsciously pushed him out of the relationship,
- Why should you do it? - To keep him,
Holding onto him by pushing him away?
If I make him believe, that things are his fault
- - then he will think, That I'm better than him,
And then he will think, That he is lucky to
have me - - and that he has to be with me,
So if I make him feel like a worse person than me - -
then he doesn't discover how bad a person I really am,
Then hold up, So ,,,
You don't think you're a worse person than him?
You ,,,
You are so good,
I love so much of you,
Sorry, That jersey just scratches like that,
Okay,
Have you always been afraid of being abandoned?
What's going on, If he goes from you?
Then I die,
Do you die?
Yes, or ,,, disappears,
Why?
Because he takes all the good in my life with him,
Then there's nothing left,
So if there is only you left, So isn't that good enough?
Is all that is good, attached to him?
Yes, in a way, He is in a way that is good about me,
Actually I don't understand, That I got him,
But sooner or later he will discover it,
If he gets time to be in his own room or with
others - - then he will discover, That it is
much better to be there - - than to be with me,
- Hi, - Hi,
My girl,
You could have fried you,
Hello, There was I,
- And Dad was delayed? - Yes,
We are here to talk about Alma, It's gone really well this winter,
I'm incredibly impressed with that, you have done,
Furthermore, you are a delight in the classroom,
You are nice, fun and thoughtful, And you hand in the homework on time,
Have you seen her great booklet by the way?
No, I haven't, Why haven't you shown me that?
I don't have to check the homework page, After all, Alma always delivers,
Yes, she does,
There has been so much talk about parents who have to check
all the time - - and spend a lot of time being after their children,
I've never been after you, You do everything of
yourself - - without asking for help, That's so good,
Just, Isn't that too much for you, Alma?
That's fine,
It's probably your dad,
That was it, Moment, I just have to pick him up,
It was really good,
Why did you say that about, That you are not on the homework page?
- To say you are self -employed, - Stop saying that, okay?
But I've never been there, You hand in what you need,
Good for you, It would have been hard for you,
- It's just because you don't bother, - No then,
You do not understand, You want me to knuckle but I'm not like you,
You don't need anything from anyone, But I'm not like you,
- Hi, - Hi,
I just want to update you on that, We've talked about,
It goes really well with Alma, Both professionally and socially,
I'll come!
Hello, Is that you?
Yes, I just wanted to look past,
Maria ,,, how are things going?
My girl! Come inside,
Fortunately, you are strong, You are,
You're like me,
The women in our family can withstand most of it,
I often think about, That there is a chain
- - of very strong women in our family,
After all, we have mom ,,, and me, you, Alma ,,,
I also often think of all those years with your father and divorce and such,
Of course it's tough, But I got through it,
And you have the same force, It should probably go well, Mary,
It should probably go well, It does,
- I have this here, - Okay, Yes, What is it?
It's just a little gift,
There is a lot of paper,
It's from the fine store, As I know you like so well,
I tried to find that taste, You talked about when we were in London,
- Is that something I've said? - Yes, You really liked it,
I stopped drinking tea,
You get yellow teeth off it, It's not nice at my age,
My neighbor has bleached his teeth, It is shown the latest,
I really have a lot to do today,
Anne, my neighbor, had a water leakage, So I had to go down to help her,
And then there has been so much stress with those tickets,
And are ,,, I think, He has called over a hundred
times - - because of the great anniversary of the union,
You can see, How much I have on the wallpaper,
Here's so much mess, I can hardly live here,
I have no more space in the attic,
You haven't picked it up, It says in the innermost attic,
- I can take those things, - I will see that before I think so,
Green tea, underneath I am,
This one is really good,
And the can is so sweet, See it straight, It's so sweet,
Can't you put in your place?
- I can also put myself on yours, - Yes, preserved,
But don't you want to sit in your old place?
You always sat there, Like a queen,
You sat there, So you got away to get up,
Erlend and I had to do that, We for back and forth - - and
you sat there like a princess and expected to be wed up,
Do you want a slice of myse cheese?
My girl… do you want to?
Why do you say that with the space at the table?
What? I ,,,
That I just sat here, And that you did everything to me?
- That's just the way it was, - What do you want to achieve with saying that?
It was just a funny comment,
You had a tendency to ask people to do things for you,
You had a little ,,, What should I say? Such a little primadonnant,
- It's nothing new, - Do you think it's a funny comment?
Now have some humor, Mary, Should everything be so damn dramatic?
If one stops laughing, Then there's nothing left,
My girl ,,,
I bought some delicious cheeses in the delicatessen business on the corner,
Do you say, That I have asked you too much?
Yes, so ,,,
I have ,,,
,,, felt like your servant occasionally,
How?
I don't know ,,, That's a bit like you were,
It was hard to set boundaries for you,
You were actually pretty demanding,
I just have to see ,,,
Mother?
- Mother, - Yes, What's the matter now?
I don't think it feels good for you to give me something,
What do you mean? I have done nothing but give,
After all, I've been alone with you all those years,
It surprises me if you have not noticed what I have given,
- I'm not saying you haven't given, - What then?
I was all alone with you,
For your father slid, Full and pitiful,
I cried every single night, Because I was so damn exhausted,
- I understand, - I was so unhappy in those years,
It was a nightmare,
No, I must not think about it, Then I don't get anything done today,
I am not saying, That you have not given anything,
I don't think it feels good for you to give me something,
- What do you mean? - That it doesn't feel good to give,
I don't think either, It feels good for you to get something,
Teen, I gave you ,,, I don't think, It felt good for you to get it,
I was very fond of that tea,
Did you get that? How did you show that?
What a cross hearing, That's what I can't do with you,
What you say now is, That you don't really like me,
It's as if you want to push me away,
It's as if you want, That I feel lousy,
Maybe you had the same anger against dad,
He said you always made fun of him in an unpleasant way,
He shouldn't say anything,
Maybe you didn't understand, what you did,
Now I think, That you have to take care of, Mary,
I feel you want, That I feel lousy,
You've never been interested in thinking about anyone other than yourself,
When you came today I thought: “Oh, how nice,
Maybe she will ask how I feel? 'Are you tired,
mom?' 'Do you need help, mother?' ' No, you don't,
But so does your brother, He is tender and caring and ,,,
He always laid a blanket over me, When I was tired,
You've never done that,
You won't remember the good, I've done,
You won't accept it, I have to give you,
I don't know why you don't trust I want you well,
That I am good and have a good heart,
I can never get good enough in your eyes,
I've always had an inner voice, It has said that I am worthless,
It sits deep inside my chest,
Okay,
Is that my fault too?
No, I don't say that, But maybe ,,,
I don't think I'm able to do this, I'm so tired,
I got happy when you came, But you will only criticize me,
I am a human being, not a machine, that can receive anything,
I think I'm going for a walk, You can just go when you've eaten,
I can't cope with all that criticism, Maybe others do, but I don't,
How are things going with you?
That's fine,
I think about what we were talking about,
About feeling like the villain, And like the one that can't give,
After all, it must be difficult for you, too,
No, it's not that hard,
- It's fine, - No?
There are many, which is far worse than me,
That is not tantamount to, It can't be difficult for you too,
I don't think, That I can talk so much today,
I haven't slept last night, So I'm very ,,, tired,
Okay, Will you quit?
I'm so tired I can't think, I just need to rest,
If you want, then you can rest here,
I have that sofa, and ,,, Do you want to lie down?
I can't, That would be weird,
Of course, it is completely voluntary,
But it's your working time, After all, it spoils your working hours,
Yes, but my time now is for you,
And if that's what you need, Then I'd like to give you that,
Will you welcome it?
You are tired, and that, You need, after all, is there,
You can be allowed to rest here with me,
If you want,
Okay,
Luxury,
It was very neat of you,
I'm sitting here with you,
So you don't have to, You probably have plenty to do,
I can just lie down here a little, until I feel a little better,
I'm not going,
I can sit here and look at you,
Or I can look a little out of the window,
But I take care of you,
It's fine for me to be allowed to,
Sorry, I'm just tired,
There is nothing to say,
Sorry that i ,,, I'm just very tired,
It doesn't matter,
There is nothing to say to, That you feel like that, Mary,
Sorry, I don't know ,,, I don't know what's with me,
I didn't get any sleep last night,
I don't usually be like this, I don't know ,,,
I hate you, You are so stupid, You're so stupid!
Cruel, Stupid,
Stupid, I hate you, I hate you, I hate you,
Stupid, Cruel,
I hate you, Your shit,
You ,,,
You are ,,,
You are ,,, totally okay,
You ,,,
You are good,
I have not been able to say that to you before,
For ,,,
,,, I haven't had a good time,
My good girl,
You have a good heart,
You may get ,,,
You must get love,
You must get that,
You are so good, You are so ,,, good,
It's totally okay, That you need love,
You are so good,
I love you,
Hello!
Hello, Come here, honey,
- Hi, - Hi,
Hello,
You're just so down,
Do you understand, That I think you are the bottom?
Yes, I understand that,
You say you're going to a job in Oslo, But you don't have a real job,
You are just failed and pitiful, You should never have had children,
I want to move home to dad, He is not slavish just like you,
It's fine that you will,
I help you want it,
Mother,
My girl,
There is nothing to say to, That you feel that way,
The one on the corner is closed, So we have to find another place,
Here?
Hello,
- A Danish water and a cappuccino, - The same to me,
I don't really have much to say,
It was you who would meet,
Say what you have to say, I'll probably listen,
Maybe I'm starting to cry,
But ,,, I don't think that's, Because I'm so sorry right now,
I want, That you try not to
feel guilty - - when I say this,
You need to know that if you want to go, Then you can do it,
You don't have to feel uncomfortable,
If that's what you need to do then you have to do it,
And you don't have to be afraid of, That I don't get well,
For I do,
I'll get well,
It has gone up for me, How scared I have been,
I've been so scared of, That you should go from me, and ,,,
,,, It's been hard for me to say that ,,, to you,
I've been so scared to sit back with myself ,,,
,,, as I've hated so much,
I just want to say sorry,
In order that I have not trusted, That you have wanted me well,
I have blamed you,
I have criticized you and ,,, held you tight,
It's ,,, vital to me ,,, to find out this,
So ,,,
… In a way it is, There has been ,,, a gift,
I would like to have, That we are together,
But what I have realized now is ,,,
,,, that I don't want to ,,,
I don't want to, If you don't want to,
If we're not together then ,,,
,,, it's okay too,
I can also have a good life ,,,
,,, without you,
Thanks,
No cause,
Then just address my own problems,
I understand that we are two about this,
And that I have my share to address,
And that I have not expressed clearly, What my needs are,
It has probably been dangerous for me to feel what my needs are,
- I have to go, - Okay,
Okay,
- Hi, Hi, - Hi, Hi,
Hello,
How are you doing?
It's dangerous to me - - to
take on that love, You give me,
It makes me scared,
What are you getting scared of?
If I let you hold on to me, Then I think you're letting go of me,
Do you think so?
Do you think I'll let go of you?
Come,